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Pram friendly cafes in the western suburbs or surrounds?
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How do I help my neurodivergent child with emotional regulation and big meltdowns?
I’m trying to tell the difference between a tantrum and real overwhelm, and what supports actually help in the moment. I usually search sensory overload, routines, co regulation, and strategies that don’t…
Why is my newborn crying all the time, and how do I calm them when nothing works?
I’m searching at 2am trying to figure out if it’s colic, gas, overtiredness, or something I’m doing wrong. I usually want a simple checklist and reassurance, plus “when to call the doctor”…
How do I know if my baby is eating enough, especially when breastfeeding feels confusing?
I’m watching feeds and nappies like a hawk and still second guessing myself. I usually search for hunger cues, cluster feeding, milk supply, and what’s normal when baby wants to feed constantly
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