Mental Load

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Mental load & invisible labour

The cognitive and emotional work of managing family life — tracking, anticipating, planning, and carrying responsibility.

Key takeaways

  • Mental load isn’t “chores” — it’s the constant management layer behind chores.
  • Load compounds when responsibilities are invisible, uneven, or unacknowledged.
  • Practical ways to externalise and share load (systems, language, and boundaries).

Selected references

Short, reputable reference set (no filler sources).

Image credits

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