Matrescence in Melbourne

Matrescence is the identity shift of becoming a mother physical, emotional, relational, and neurological. If you feel unlike yourself, you’re not broken. You’re becoming. This page is a warm, editorial guide for Melbourne mums in the thick of it.

What matrescence can look like

  • Feeling flattened or overstimulated, even when you love your kids.
  • Grief for your old autonomy, paired with fierce protectiveness.
  • Friendships changing, relationship pressure, and “who am I now?” moments.
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